Greeting Other
Dogs
Zoey Dog
I am glad you can’t see me right
now.
I have a red spot on my
face, and I am missing a little hair.
I hate to think about
how it happened, but I think if I share my story, more
owners and dogs will understand how to avoid a
problem.
Those of you who know
Labs like me know that we love everybody.
I have never met
anyone I didn’t like, that is until I met that one dog
down the street. You see, I know everyone in the
neighborhood, and we do regular hellos and smell
checks. We’ve
known each other a long time, and I love to pass my friends, like
Maggie the poodle, on my walks. One day Maggie told me during our
usual greeting and smell check that I should watch out for
the new black dog a few blocks down.
I yipped at her and
told her she didn’t know what she was talking
about. I mean,
I’m a Lab, and we know how all the other dogs are.
Sometimes those
poodles are a little high-strung and diva-ish, or maybe
it’s just Maggie, but I know I’ve never met a dog that
didn’t like me.
I’ve heard other dog owners
mention to my owner that she shouldn’t let me rush up to meet
new dogs. I’ve heard
her laugh back at them. “Dogs all get along; I don’t need to
worry, “ she said. I
agreed with her until I met that big black
dog.
It was early one
morning, and dew was still fresh on the
grass.
My owner wanted to take
an early morning walk because of the expected high
temperature later on.
Neither one of us do
well in the summer heat.
It was just the two of
us until we turned the corner of the
street.
There he was! He was a
hulking, large dog, just like Maggie had
described.
I thrust my nose up the
hair and took in deep breaths.
I caught wind of his
scent, and it was powerful, male.
He stared back and
slowly wagged his tail.
See, Maggie was wrong;
he did want to greet me.
I jumped excitably up on
my back legs.
“Oh, okay Zoey,” my
owner said, and she approached the man walking this dog to
introduce ourselves to the new neighbors.
I almost walked on my
hind legs all the way to them, and I could tell he felt my
excitement too.
His tail swished back
and forth, but he did not come out to greet
me.
He must be shy, I
thought, and so I boldly approached him and put a paw out to
greet him.
He glared at my foot and
barked at me sharply.
What was wrong with this
new dog? I jumped at him to show I was playful and wanted to
be friends, but he lunged at me and grabbed my face with his
mouth.
I heard our owners yell
something out, and we were pulled apart from one
another.
My pride was hurt more
than my face.
I didn’t know what had
happened or why he didn’t like me.
The black dog’s owner
told my owner he was sorry, but he said she shouldn’t let me
greet other dogs like that.
After all, not all dogs
like to be greeted by others, and I could meet the wrong dog
and get hurt.
Boy, was he
right!
Since that day, my owner
learned that how I greeted that dog had been very
disrespectful in doggie language.
I really didn’t know
since I am an only dog.
I guess that my display
of excitement (barking, pulling to see, pawing at, and
jumping towards) had really been threatening to him, and he
didn’t know I only wanted to play.
My owner also told me
that we would not ever approach a dog staring at me like
that again.
I learned that focused
staring can be a bad thing.
Plus, not every wagging
tail means a happy dog! Who knew?
Now, whenever there is a
new dog in the neighborhood, my owner does not allow me to run
up and greet them. Instead, we walk by nicely and I smell from
a distance. If the other dog wants to play too and the owner
says he is friendly, then she allows me to visit sometimes.
Soon my face will be all healed up, and I’ll have new hair. I
learned that I may love everybody, but not everybody is going
to love me.

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